Wedding Ceremonies

As a wedding planner, I place great importance on wedding ceremonies. They are an opportunity not only to formalize your union but also to celebrate your love in front of everyone—both society at large and your loved ones.

There are several ceremonies that I will describe in more detail. You can choose the one(s) that best suit you based on your beliefs, your preferences, your personality, and your personal history. Each ceremony has a strong symbolic meaning and will require your active participation.

Just like planning your wedding, a ceremony requires advance planning and preparation.

A civil ceremony is a must

This is the only ceremony that has legal standing. In France, you must register your marriage at a town hall to make it official. You can choose the town hall in your place of residence, your parents’ place of residence, or the location of a second home.

Please contact the town hall to pick up an application form and schedule an appointment.

Each spouse may choose one or two witnesses.

The ceremony is brief (about 15 minutes) and often lacks a personal touch.

My advice is to make this moment a little more festive by playing music as you enter and/or leave the town hall. You could also plan to have guests throw biodegradable confetti, flower petals, or lavender (rice is now prohibited) or provide small bottles of soap bubbles or ribbons for guests to wave.

You’re officially married! You can stop right there and start celebrating! Or you can follow up with a religious or non-religious ceremony.

The religious ceremony

Depending on your beliefs, you will head to a place of worship.

This step should be taken as early as possible to ensure that the desired venue is available.

Generally, preparatory sessions are offered, either in groups or on an individual basis.

We will ask you to make a financial contribution in the form of a donation (€150–€300).

To make this moment truly special, feel free to decorate the venue with flowers and choose music that holds special meaning for you for these important moments. And of course, don’t forget to plan a grand exit for the newlyweds!

The secular ceremony

The trendiest wedding ceremony in recent years!

It usually takes place outdoors, at the reception venue, and is designed to be highly personalized. It’s a time to celebrate your love, your story, and your union.

Your loved ones are invited to participate by reading passages or poems, or by singing songs… We look forward to seeing your creativity and heartfelt performances.

A secular ceremony officiant is needed to coordinate this event. This could be a close friend or family member, or a professional. This ceremony requires several months of preparation and a significant commitment from everyone involved to ensure it is truly personalized and meaningful.

A ritual is suggested. It should be chosen based on your personality or have a symbolic meaning that resonates with you.

Even though this ceremony is meant to be informal, it requires careful planning in advance. That’s why I always recommend hiring a professional. They’ll guide you through the planning process and help you reflect on the meaning of your union. With their outside perspective, they’ll be able to orchestrate a wedding ceremony that perfectly reflects who you are and how you want to experience the day.

My role as a wedding planner—organizing weddings and ceremonies!

I appreciate the uniqueness of every wedding ceremony—I find them all deeply moving—and I respect your choices without judgment. My role is to guide you through the necessary steps and connect you with the right vendors (officiant, florist, musicians, etc.) to create a memorable wedding ceremony! I understand the timeframes involved and plan ahead to ensure the day runs smoothly. I coordinate the setup and decorations. I am present during the ceremonies, working discreetly to manage the details and logistics.